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Must, post, this, before, March…

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

(the following is the text the update letter we will be sending out in the next couple of days.  But since I’m lazy I thought I’d just copy/ paste it here.  So those of you who get our update letter in your email and then think that it sounds vaguely familiar; you’re right.)

To all of our friends and family,

We apologize that we didn’t send an “official” update on what our family had been doing in January.  It’s not that we didn’t do anything fantastic or memorable; I’d have to say that it was just the grind of life catching up with us.  For all of you that send out your annual Christmas letter (all of whom we greatly admire since every time we try to do it, it ends up being more of a “post-Valentine/pre-Easter” update) you know how hard it is to write down (wait, first you have to REMEMBER) all the major events for each family member and then add a couple of pictures and then get it in the (e)mail.

Here’s a quick synopsis of what we’ve been doing and what our plans are for our last 10 WEEKS in Tlaxiaco.  Yup, only 10 weeks left.  Doesn’t seem like much time, does it?  In order of shortest to tallest this time:

Katria – Our littlest (and most of the time loudest) one is about to turn two in March.  Can you believe it has already been two years since God blessed all of us with her?  Her language skills are growing rapidly and she is constantly using full sentences.  Sometimes people other than her parents and siblings understand her!  Katria still loves to dance and whenever Ryan has the computer on (which is pretty much always) she runs up and announces “song” which is her way of telling Ryan to turn on a little something that she can dance to.  Finally, Katria has been attending a preschool put on by one of the base moms twice a week.

Jared – The 2nd man of the house seems to be constantly dirty.  It’s not that we don’t wash him often; it’s just that he spends so much time playing around the base.  Football, soccer, riding scooters, playing on the rope swing, etc all add together to make it difficult to tell where his tan stops and the dirt starts.  But he is having a lot of fun!  Jared is looking forward to a trip at the end of April with his soccer team (and Dad who wasn’t going to miss this!) to Pachuca, Mexico which is where his favourite team plays.  How many Canadian kids get to go to a Mexican pro league soccer game in their lifetime?  The trip also includes an autograph session with the team, a tour of various facilities and lots of blank stares as Ryan tries to understand the other parents and kids on the trip.

Chelsey – Our oldest has started piano lessons and is continuing to learn how to read music.  Her Spanish language skills are impressive; most of the time Michelle does not need to help her with her homework!  Chelsey has a lot of friends on base and like Jared there are many hours where we don’t see her.  But there are lots of times where she comes home, curls up with a good book and spends an hour reading.  In the recent GFM talent show Chelsey sang “Rey de reyes” (King of Kings) and invented her own dance to go with it.  It was very well done and of course we were quite proud of her.

Michelle – A few weeks ago some of the local Christian youth approached a friend of ours and asked him to lead a bible study focused on evangelism.  Michelle has been fortunate to become involved in the leadership of this group too.  She says she is enjoying it and claims that every once in a while the class actually understands her!  Michelle has also started to practice with some of the other students in a worship band in preparation for the spring missions trips GFM will be hosting.  Every Tuesday Michelle also gets to help out with a cooking class for the local ladies.  Combine all of this with two 40 minute round trip walks to the kid’s school and taking care of a two year old and you can see she is quite busy!

Ryan – Much of the same activities for Ryan in the last couple of months.  Of course, there are many books being read (at last count he has read 25 books since September with about 5 more to go).  In his administration work, Ryan has installed, configured and launched a new software package which allows GFM much more flexibility and time when communicating with its supporters.  The next project is a total redesign/ recreation of the GFM website.  In March Ryan will also go on at least two trips to local villages to do community development (eg. Well digging).  April will be spent on the website and also attempting to improve his Spanish skills.

Our prayer needs at this time are simple.  First, we want to praise God for how much safety and health He has given our family.  Most of us battled off a cold in the last month, but its impact was quite minimal.  Next, please pray for protection from spiritual attack as we continue to draw closer to the Lord and His leading for what we are to do when we get home.  We would also love prayer as we continue to plan and prepare to come home.  We know that there will be plenty of culture shock when we arrive back in Airdrie!
Financially we are doing well, and we thank everyone for their time spent praying about this.  Please continue to pray and give as the Lord directs you.  The flights home for Michelle and Katria have already been purchased and they will arrive back home on May 14.  We believe that we will have enough to pay our living expenses remaining for our last 10 weeks here.  The only uncertainties are the expected unexpected costs (if they come) and the drive home for Ryan, Chelsey and Jared.  We are expecting that the seven day road trip will cost over $1000 due to gas, hotels, food and a little entertainment to keep all three of us from going crazy!  So again, we ask that you please pray about our finances and if God wants you to give a little extra to help.

Finally, since our trip is coming to a close we know that many of you will find a little extra money freed up in your monthly budget as your support pledge has been fulfilled.  We know that God has rewarded you for your faithfulness in giving.  Hopefully you have discovered that the money really wasn’t needed.    Can we suggest that instead of stopping the habit of giving that you have gotten into that you find another person to support?  Your home church may have missionaries in need of support, you may know someone in the mission field as well.  If you don’t know of anyone you could transfer your financial support to, we know many people in the missions field who are struggling to continue due to lower than necessary financial support.  Let us know if you would like to be introduced to some of these people, and we will happily make the connection.  The work they are doing is phenomenal and we know that you would be greatly blessed by supporting them.

Thanks again everyone.  And, if you want to send a care package or letter you are running out of time as it takes a few weeks to get here!

Our address is: CTEN c/o Diks Family, APDO 14, Tlaxiaco Oaxaca, Mexico 69800.

See all of you soon!

Ryan, Michelle, Chelsey, Jared and Katria Diks

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February 5, 2009

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

How can you tell that we are running out of interesting titles for blog posts?  This is the 2nd time that we’ve used the date as the title.  But this time we made one subtle change.  Did you catch it?

No?

Well, it was tough to spot.  This time we got an announcer (like the Daily Show with John Stewart guy) to announce the title.  So if you missed it just refresh the page and make sure you have your sound turned up all the way…

OK.  Enough frivolity!  (I have no idea if I spelled that right)  It’s February and once again time to try and put some kind of update down on e-paper (like toilet paper only much more friendly to the environment).  We got here in September with a long 9 months ahead of us, and now there is only 1 more month of Missions Training School class left, then a month of working with the short term teams that are coming down from the States.  April will be a very quiet (aka lonely) month for us as almost everyone from the GFM base is leaving for home and/ or Thailand.  We decided to stick around for the month (and half of May) to try and learn whatever else we can about short term missions and whatever else God has for us.  For example, my Spanish learning could be classified as weak to non-existent so I plan to use April to try and triple my knowledge (that’s not hard with how little I know).  Unless of course you count being able to order food in a restaurant.  Then I AM AN ALL-STAR.  As long as the staff stick to the script.  Which if they don’t usually means they get the legendary blank stare followed by me panickedly (not sure if that is a real word, but it works) gesturing to Michelle to answer and then hoping she heard what was said.

Oh, and I can get the van filled with gas.  And washed.  Also I can buy groceries.  Basically anything to do with driving and eating which are two of my biggest specialties in life anyways.  And as long as everyone sticks to the script and doesn’t ask me a question that doesn’t belong.  Like “how come you are so tall and white and living in Mexico?”  Or, “how did a pretty girl like your wife end up with you?”  Yup, that question gets asked by many people in many countries and I can’t answer it in any language.

Thanks to everyone for your comments on the Diks family’s 80′s party get-up.  Due to popular demand the mesh t-shirt and amazing mustache will make future appearances.  Not sure when, and I think it’s best for everyone if it is just left for a surprise!  If you didn’t see the pictures yet, go to our previous post about the fact that we are glad the 80′s died.  Or go visit our gallery at www.diks.ca/pictures.html.

And now after really disturbing the fans, lets try and get back on track with some family updates.

Michelle has been helping out with a youth bible study at a local church.  It’s really pushing her Spanish skills but I think she’s enjoying it.  These youth have a huge passion for evangelism.  She also found a bass guitar hidden away in a storage room on base and is playing with it.  Can you say Christmas or birthday present?  :-) She is still helping out at the ladies cooking classes as well.

Chelsey has stopped dance classes and is now taking piano lessons from one of the other MTS students.  She is continuing to do really good at her school work; art and math are probably her best subjects at the moment.  She loves to read and many times we have to remind her that she shouldn’t start a new book when she already has two or three on the go!

Jared is still doing soccer and says he loves it.  He’s looking forward to the end of April when the team is going on a trip to Pachuca (a city north of Mexico City) to see a pro game.  Pachuca is the team that sponsors their soccer school and apparently the kids (and dads!) will get to meet the team, tour the stadium and do a bunch of other cool stuff for the weekend.  Jared recently impressed our usual waitress at our usual restaurant with his ability to order his meal.  So ya, his Spanish is doing just fine.

Katria is growing.  And growing.  And growing.  Her language skills are astounding (and of course, she’s a Diks kid!) and she is constantly repeating everything she hears.  Cool, and scary since she has me for a father and I’m not known for necessarily saying the appropriate thing at all times.  She also is learning many Spanish words; in fact she recognizes which people (the whiteys or the english speakers) to say “Hi!” to and which ones to say “Hola!”.  She still is one of the most popular kids in Tlaxiaco, but we suspect she is getting a little bored with the attention.  Katria also started doing some pre-school classes ran by one of the moms on base here.  It’s only for about an hour twice a week, but that’s enough for her right now.

As for me, not much has changed.  My beard grew back in after a week and people stopped running away in fear from me, so that’s nice.  Our soccer team was playing around 3 games a week for a bit there; which is WAY too much when you’re old AND the goalie.  A couple of teammates gave me a break and played a half in a couple of different games.  Which was nice until I realized that the trade off was that they get to stand in net and breath normally and I spent 30 minutes running up and down the field.  I knew there was a reason why I volunteered to play goal in the first place!  I just wish it didn’t take a coughed up lung and a couple of hard fouls to realize it.  Michelle explained it well to one of the other ladies, “Ryan is used to playing much more physical sports.  And he hates it when little people try to push him around.”  Don’t ask what I did…

So only about 14 more weeks to go until we come home!  Can you believe it?  God has opened our eyes to so many new truths and we are excited to get back home and start living missionally for Him.  So many things to pursue.  So many changes to make to become more like Christ.

As far as prayer requests, please pray that our minds would continue to be focused on Christ and His voice.  We so want to ensure we don’t miss a single lesson that He has for us here.  Please also pray for energy as we are starting to feel a little fatigued.

GFM could also use your prayers.  They recently decided to make a drastic move.  In about 2 years they are going to start GFM USA; which is intended to reach the members of the unreached people groups that have come to the USA for work/ school/ safety.  The work in Oaxaca is coming to a close and it is felt that moving to the USA will be a massive boost to both mobilization and evangelization.  The goal would be to target people who have come to the US, disciple them and then send them back to their home countries with the gospel.  Many of these countries are closed to westerners, so it is a really cool vision to help complete the Great Commission.

So thanks everyone for your support.  Thanks for putting up with long, sometimes confusing blog posts and continuing to pray for us.  Thanks for your obedience to God in the area of financial support.  With our current pledged level of monthly support we should be just fine.  But keep praying for us in this area and responding as God directs.  He knows good and well what we need for expected and unexpected expenses (well, unexpected to us) and will direct people to give as necessary so that the funds are available when they are needed.  God hasn’t failed us yet and He won’t start any time soon.

/RD

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